In my early years as an HR Advisor, I hadn’t yet experienced many difficult conversations. I had never conducted a redundancy, nor had I been in the position of terminating someone’s employment. I was still learning, still observing, and often feeling the weight of responsibility that comes with guiding others through challenging moments. I reported to an experienced HR Manager at the time, and I’ll never forget watching her prepare for a performance management discussion. Sh

Growing up, I saw communication style differences play out in real-time—under my very own roof. My dad is all about precision: budgets, spreadsheets, timelines, specific details. A logical, linear thinker who preferred certainty and careful planning – no risk taking or quick decisions. My mum, on the other hand, lived in possibility. Vision-driven, social, and spontaneous—she’d wave off questions about the details with a flick of her hand and say, “I don’t know, or I haven’t

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